I joined a
church today[1]
My wife and I joined a
new church today.
There was nothing
wrong with the old one – we just happened to move 200klm away. There’s lots of
bad reasons to change churches but moving away is a good one.
So, why join this
particular church?
There are many
churches in our new place, so why chose this one?
The new church passed
our core criteria. The Bible is well-taught. The gospel is on lips and in lives.
The church has an outward-looking heart with a desire to see people become
Christians. It is sensitive and responsive to what is happening in the wider
community. There’s plenty of people with whom we can expect to have good
fellowship. There’s good opportunity for us to serve according to our gifts and
circumstances. It is well led.
These are all
important boxes to tick.
The church also passes
some other tests. Its local to our home which makes it easy for us to get there
and to invite friends and neighbours to come with us. We have family and
friends there, so there is an easy entry. It’s belongs to our background tradition,
so we should have a good fit in terms of the teaching, style and tone.
So, how are we joining
this church?
We turned up on our
first Sunday after moving and will do so every week that we are in town. Heb
10:25!
We stayed after the
service to talk with people and start making new friends.
We signed up to
contribute to the regular funds of the church as well as to a particular ministry
project.
We registered for the church’s
newsfeed and directory.
We volunteered to host
some members of a visiting mission team to lunch in a few weeks’ time.
We will wait to see
where we can be useful longer term and then commit to ongoing service.
There’s nothing
special in any of this. We are just doing the normal things that are part of
being with the people of God.
We did all this
because we have learned over the years that people who only dip their toes in a
church tend to stay on the margins and then drift on. We don’t want to be
spiritual butterflies who flit between churches with the greatest of ease. We
want to belong.
A perfect church?
Right now we are
enamoured with the new church and it’s a breath of fresh air in our lives.
However, we know that
we will soon discover its imperfections and contribute to them. We know the
imperfections are there, because they are in every church mentioned in the NT and
throughout history. These imperfections come from people like us who are somewhere
on the journey between conversion and glorification – we are not there yet.
We know there will be
annoying and difficult people whose behaviours may be challenging. They are our
opportunity to serve the body and to grow in our discipleship – for growth
invariably occurs at points of discomfort and challenge. These have been called
sandpaper Christians – they irritate and may hurt, but they help strip back our
faults and make us better people.
Annoying and difficult
those these people may be, they are part of the body of Christ. The Father
chose them in eternity and sent the Son for their salvation. The Son died so
they could be forgiven and adopted in his family. The Spirit brought them to
life, has kept them in Christ and enables the unique service to each. They have
the same destiny as us in eternal life. If that how the Lord sees and treats
them, who are we to see or treat them less than he does? How can we gather
worthily at the table to remember the body of the crucified Christ if we do not
also discern and honour his earthly body in the church (1 Cor 11:29; Matt
5:23-24)?
We know the leaders of
our new church will disappoint us at times. Their imperfections will be writ
large because they visibly impact the whole body. They will lack wisdom, make
mistakes, become wearied and all the rest. But we will still honour our leaders
because the Bible tells us so (Heb 13:7) and because they serve the flawless chief
shepherd (2 Pet 2:25; 5:1-4). We will honour them by praying for them, respecting
their decisions and cooperating with their plans. None of this puts them above
disagreement, scrutiny or accountability, but it is a respectful rather than
rebellious disagreement, scrutiny and accountability.
A big call
It’s a big call to
leave jobs, relocate, make a new home and entrust our earthly affairs to new
professionals.
It’s bigger call to
entrust our soul to a new church.
We are careful in
choosing the new professionals to care for our earthly affairs and are at least
equally careful in choosing those who will care for our souls.