Sunday, June 7, 2020

Conversation with a dying man


I recently spoke with a man who is dying. Correction – every person I speak with is dying. As is the man in the mirror. However, this man knows he is dying and what he is likely to die from. In a matter of months, a strong and vigorous man has become terminal. A great day for him now is to walk to the end of the street and back, eat three times daily and have bowel motions. Soon enough even those days will be memories for him and then for his surviving family.

He is a Christian man. He has been of faith for many years and has given distinguished service over many years at high levels of church leadership.

He appreciates appreciation for his church service but, as he says, ‘we are saved by grace not works’ and ‘all that matters is that Christ died for me’.

He does not want to die yet and is not looking forward to the process of dying. However, he is sure of his destiny because he knows who holds it and who chose him before creation, brought him to faith, nurtured faith into discipleship and discipleship into service.

He is not afraid. Not angry. Nor despondent. Rather he is abounding in life. So much so that in speaking I was able to say, ‘for a dying man you sound very well.’ He does not expect the Lord to deliver him from death but has unshakeable confidence that He will deliver him through death.

And so, he has the sure and certain hope of which Scripture speaks (Heb 6:19). He does not brush his death aside with mindless platitudes, deny it, try to escape it with mindfulness, nor yield to despair. These medicines of unbelief hold no appeal, for the gospel is his tonic.

That is a living faith in a dying man.

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